thisworldofhurt

For Dad

In children, Dads, life, Men, Parents on June 15, 2014 at 12:01 am

Fatherhood is an fascinating institution. There is nothing in life that compares to the magnitude of not only creating life with the mother of your children, but then spending decades attempting to prepare the tiny person that you created for a life of their own. Children are the only things that one can experience that can both keep you young, and make you grow old at the same time. As for myself, I know that I am not always the greatest parent, but I absolutely love being a dad. I must admit that I have become the man that I am because of the men that came before me, and through their teachings.

My father is a great man, as his father was before him. He taught me more than simply how to grow into an adult, but he also taught me how to be a father when the time came. He showed me how to conduct myself in the world of adulthood, how to properly covey my ideals in a political setting, and helped me to learn how to defuse the volatile situations that may result from conveying those ideals. He instilled in me a love of art and music, and educated me on how to play an instrument of my own, tools that would carry me into a professional realm of music for many years into my adulthood.

My father taught me the importance of history, and how the learning of it will go far to prevent the repeating of it. He showed me the value of economics and the maintaining of a well balanced budget. He was the son of a World War II veteran—a Silver Star nominated Marine for merit under combat—and he passed down the necessity for avoiding conflict. I remember that both men have given the same advice to me: “You should avoid a violent conflict whenever possible, even at the loss of face, but if violence becomes unavoidable, you should meet your opponent with such aggressive brutality that it crushes their resolve.”

My father taught me the importance of loyalty to the ones that you love. He has said to me on more than one occasion that you should hold loyalty above all else but integrity. Fortunately, my father is still alive today, and I will continue to learn from him as long as his magnificent heart beats in his chest. So, I would like to tell him how much I appreciate him never giving up on me in my more impetuous years. I would like to tell him how much that I love him, and how much I appreciate his teachings. I would like to spend the years to come continuing to learn, and spending time together in laughter, retelling the stories that have brought us so much joy no matter how many times that we hear them.

I say to my dad, “Happy Father’s day” and , “Thank you, Pop. Thank you for teaching, for your guidance, for your love and compassion, for your patience and most important, for your inspiration. And of course, thank you for my life. Because of what you have instilled in me, I think I might be able to to make it through This World of Hurt.

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